You are using a professional service and at no point are you the owner of the sex worker’s body, nor are you experiencing a love story.
Remember: if you are polite and respect the sex worker, you will receive better service! All services must be agreed upon by both parties.
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Just like in any profession, the sex worker should not be subjected to harassment, discrimination, or prejudice and is protected by law. According to the Portuguese Constitution: “All citizens have the same social dignity and are equal before the law.”
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No means no! Every sex worker has their own boundaries, which must be respected. Many sex workers, for example, do not kiss clients because infections such as herpes, flu, syphilis, and others can be transmitted. You must respect each worker’s choice without pressure.
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Practice good hygiene; it is essential to shower before and after the session. If the sex worker feels more comfortable inspecting your body and genitals, do not take offense. This may even help you identify infections you were unaware of.
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Even if you bring your own condoms or lubricants, do not insist if the sex worker prefers to use their own. Usually, each professional has their own preventive materials for different types of sexual activity (oral, vaginal, or anal). This ensures both their safety and yours.
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If the sex worker’s materials do not fit your body—for example, if you need condoms for a very large or very small penis—and you have your own, negotiate the situation respectfully with the worker.
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If an accident happens with a condom, such as breaking or slipping during penetration, remain calm. There are techniques to reduce risk and measures like PPE.
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Try to be discreet and respect the workspace. Neighbors may be nearby, so discretion and calm are important.
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Trust is essential, so if you have questions, ask. Sex workers are generally well-informed about risks, infections, and the best ways to protect sexual activity.
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As a client, you can also help identify cases of trafficking, sexual exploitation, or other forms of violence. In Portugal, being a client of paid sex is not a crime, so you should not hesitate to contact the competent authorities and report situations of violence or abuse.
